you completely missed my point ma dude. Obviously if your like 5'4, have freckles, broke, and have braces and you play a sexy r and b song your not getting any, but my point is, a girl appreciates it more. Hearing about how your getting dome in the front seat of the hummer, or how your gonna hit it from the back is a huge turn-off for many women (the women i date anyway). I am just saying it is an aid in helping you, just as cologne is, just as a watches can help your swag, just as making your breath smell nice is an aid. If you didn't wear any cologne, and you dont smell good or bad, she will still like you, but a nice smell helps. Hope that makes sense.