The Boyfriend problem

[a;sdlfkjas;df]

In here, you will get killed if you mess up with girls who have boyfriend.. It's okay if you don't know her boyfriend and when they break up you start to date with this girl. But if this boyfriend is your friend or you know him, let it be.

You just don't touch your friends (ex-)girlfriends.

that's par for the course anywhere where people have feelings (not so much in mother russia, iraq, iran, north korea, japan, china, etc.)

[AznMagic]

u dun wanna be in the friend zone but u don't wanna be too direct either.  u can't just go up to a girl and be like "you are so hot, will you go out with me?"

definitely

and drama is there only if you want there to be drama.  i've personally gone out with many girls that had boyfriends, and i didn't even know about it.  why?  because i jus played the game as normal, as with any other girl, and if you are good at creating that attraction then they will purposely hide the fact that they have a bf from you!

yeah

the boyfriend wouldn't be to happy though (if he gets wind)

good advice.  you have running game down to a (social) science

but what i've noticed is that the boyfriend is NEVER happy...  NO MATTER WHAT!

i have A LOT of female friends.  NOT girlfriends, but friends that are girls.  about 70% of my friends are girls.  and a lot of them have boyfriends too.  and i've noticed, that even if i'm just a friend...  even if there is nothing going on... i'm not trying any shit on them... and even if they know all that AND know also that i have other options or am going for something else or that i HAVE something else... if i'm hanging out with their girlfriends they'll get jealous and angry!!!  it's a natural instinctive urge to want to protect what you have and not let any other guy swoop in and take ur girl... but i notice that too many guys have this problem.

sorry bout the rant, but my point is... it won't make too much of a difference either way.

[a;sdlfkjas;df]

yes, but i think the friend/closer friend line is the line between getting bitched at and getting a brick to the back of the head

people do some wacked out shit

eta:  i have this problem unless i know, and trust, the guy

fwiw, my girlfriend never hangs out exclusively with one other guy.  just guys in a group with girls intermixed

[Acquaviva]

hmmm, i think im going to do what owen4ever said, i mean, she has only been dating the guy for like 1 week....
im going to the movies with her tonight, and im gonna do a lil experiment, if she brings along he BF, then that means i should run for the bushes cuz she aint interested, if she takes her best friend, then that means that she is not interested cuz she already has a BF, but if she goes alone, then im gonna work my magic xD

[a;sdlfkjas;df]

she has only been dating the guy for like 1 week

i wouldn't consider that a relationship

she's game

[manutd.]

Yeah that's more of just "dealing".

And if it's your first "date", it shouldn't be movies, because you almost never talk..

[Acquaviva]

we have gone  to the movies a bunch of times before, but allways with a group of friends from school, and she is a steriotipicall "girl" if its a horror movie, she will hold on to whoever is sitting beside her during all the movie, so that gives me even more oportunities to work my magic xD and afterwards we will probably go and eat something, but first and most important is, she has GOT to be alone, otherwise im screwed.
this is the girls code for going out to the movies with guys:

1.) she goes alone, meaning that she likes you and is giving you a chance to see how you would be as a couple
2.) she takes her best friend, that does not mean that she dislikes you, it just means that she is not looking to go out with you at the momment, so the best friend is kinda like a chapperone and you can NEVER i repeat NEVER make a move on a girl who bought her best friend along!
3.) she takes her BF, in that case just give up and get out, i woudent even show up if i knew she where taking her BF

[manutd.]

Haha this is super interesting. Let us know what happens.

I have a feeling she'll take her best friend, but that could also just mean she's shy. Most likely her boyfriend and her best friend will come. Maybe her best friend likes you?

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[3styla]

This thread is very cool  :biggrin:

[Chunkchenko]

or she might bring her parents a long lol

[Acqua]

oo, and if she brings her parents along then that means that she wants to marry you and she is introducing you to her parents so, RUN!!! lol

[SeBaS]

this whole discussion is kinda nerd

this was my 666th post 
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